10 Things Narcissists Say and What They Really Mean Narcissists often use certain phrases that seem innocent or even caring on the surface but are layered with manipulation and control. Understanding what these statements really mean can help you see their true intentions. Here are 10 common phrases narcissists use and what they’re likely trying to convey.1. “You’re too sensitive.”Translation: I’m dismissing your feelings. Narcissists often claim that others are overly sensitive to avoid account